Finding Their Place:

“We couldn’t afford it anymore, but the kids kept asking,’” says Olu. “When we got the call saying the whole family was getting a membership, I was overwhelmed. It felt like Christmas.”

At first, Olu paid out of pocket for her boys to attend the Y. But after a few months—and without reliable income—she had to stop. That meant no more swimming, no more basketball, and no more play area visits. The kids were devastated.

“They were just at home,” she says. “They cried. They missed it. They kept asking if we could go back.”

Her son Nathan, now in Grade 9, was especially determined. He had joined his school’s basketball team and wanted a place to practice.

One day, after her son Nathan appeared at the front desk with an inactive membership, Olu made a call and explained their situation. A Y staff member took the time to listen—and invited Nathan in. Soon after, Olu received another call: not only would Nathan get support, the entire family would receive a one-year Strong Kids membership.

Since then, the Y has become a part of their weekly rhythm—and their family’s healing.

Nathan now trains at the Y almost every day. His younger brother spends time in the play area and loves swimming lessons. Olu brings the kids whenever she can.

“Every time I say we’re going to the Y, they light up,” she says. “And when swimming ends, my youngest cries—he just wants to go to the play area. He never wants to leave.”

Before Strong Kids, the boys had never taken swimming lessons. Now they’re gaining skills, confidence, and community. And they're doing it in a space that feels safe and supportive.

“It’s not just activities,” Olu says. “They’re learning discipline, respect, how to interact with others. And as a parent, it’s a relief. You know they’re somewhere good.”

Nathan agrees: “At the Y, you get an opportunity not everyone has,” he says. “You learn respect, and you have your own space. It’s a good place to be.”